Vance was embarrassed for me as everyone sang "Happy Birthday".
Of course, I needed help blowing out all my candles. Vance knew just what to do.
Vance was embarrassed for me as everyone sang "Happy Birthday".
Of course, I needed help blowing out all my candles. Vance knew just what to do.
I'm not a huge fan of posting pictures of myself, by myself, but I thought someone might like to see the dress I got for my birthday. Yes, today is my birthday. I'm 26 years old. When I was complaining to Stephen how I was now going to be closer to 30 than 20 he pointed out that I've been that way for a year now. Well, thanks sweetheart! :) Anyway, here's the dress he got me and I'm wearing a necklace from the boys. I showed it to Vance when we got home and told him that it was my birthday present from him so that makes it official. Thanks to my brothers and little sister, who watched the boys Stephen and I were able to go dress shopping kid free. So I only had one bored boy instead of three. Stephen is a good sport, he even held my purse while I was in the dressing room. It pays to have a husband who had three older sisters and no brothers!
Tanner is so funny to listen to and watch. If you tell him to march he will march around the room saying, "March, march, march..." as you can see in the video below. He loves to try and boss us all around. Yesterday he told me to "Come back" twice. One of my favorite things he says is, "Vance (or whoever he's looking for) where are you?" He also likes to wave and say hi. "Hi Mom" "Hi Doggie" The other evening we were in the kitchen and the door opened and Tanner said, "Hi Dad!" and waved before he even saw Stephen come in. I guess he knows Dad had better be the only one coming in without knocking.
The two of them are little partners in crime. I'm pretty sure they plan to have one keep me occupied while the other gets into something. Tanner fights back now when Vance tries to bully rather than just take it like he did when he was younger so I get to break up fights all the time. They do love each other though. When they get up in the morning they say hi to each other and if I tell them to give each other a hug they will both open their arms and hug (most of the time...). If one is doing something fun they will tell the other to come play.
Unfortunately, Tanner was too big to wear the shirt and sweater this year but hey, the pants still fit!
through each dress that I own and to my horror my fears were confirmed. Stephen and I have been married for 5 years, 8 months and in that amount of time I have bought ONE dress. That is it, just ONE. It was a black dress I got ridiculously discounted this past fall. (Now obviously I have bought maternity dresses in that amount of time.) We are talking just a good old dress to wear to church. Some of you may be thinking, "Okay, but what about skirts?" Slightly better- my mom bought me a cute suit jacket and skirt for my birthday four years ago and I have bought two other skirts since we've been married. I am not lying or exaggerating the truth although I wish I was. That is pretty embarrassing. I own and wear more dresses that I owned and wore in high school than I own since I've been married. Yes, they are worn out, yes there have been times where these dresses fit more snuggly than other times. The fact of the matter is I just need an entirely new wardrobe to wear to church on Sunday. If I wasn't a church going person I suppose this wouldn't be a big deal, but I am and therefore it is. No wonder I stare into my closet every Sunday wondering what on earth to put on. One might think that I don't like clothes or to be in style, but I do. I just have let that take a back seat to not having a lot of money. I am a practical person. I'm going to pick more practical things than clothing for myself, to spend money on, but there comes a time when this is the practical thing. So I turned to Stephen and told him, "You are buying me a dress for my birthday." His response was, "I am thoughtful like that." I'll settle for one even though I need half a dozen more or so. :)And much much more! Now if I can only remember that these things are/can be positive things when we are both tired and I am at the end of my rope! :)